Fertile boyfriend tries to elude DNA – The Denver Post

Dear Amy: I’ve been with my resident boyfriend, “Gene,” for over three years.

He has two children, and I have three.

The issue I struggle with is that he recently found out he has a 5 year old child.

When we met, he told me he had already determined that the child was not his, by having his mother take a DNA test, which showed that this baby had no DNA connection to his family.

Well, surprise… the child IS his.

Now I feel betrayed and cheated.

I would not have been with him if I had known about this third child (by three different women).

I am in love with him, and the best way I can describe this emotion is to say that to me it is tantamount to being cheated on.

He does not understand why I have such strong feelings about this situation.

He said I was supposed to support him.

I’m not sure how I can do that if I feel second-rate to three women who have his children, and yet I do not have a child with him. He told me he has no desire for marriage.

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